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By: Paul S Cilwa |
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| Blog Entry posted December 21, 2010, in which we attempt to summarize the past year. |
| Estimated reading time: 10 minute(s) (2244 words) |
The population at the household remained constant the first
eleven months of the year, for the first time in some time. Michael;
myself, Paul; our daughter Jenny and grandson Zachary comprised the
humans; while dogs Cirrus and Amber and cats Cassie and Milton
rounded up the group. Of course we continued to have frequent visits
from son John and his fiancée Rachel, John and Jenny's mother Mary,
and our dear friends Barbara and Peter.
January
The first minutes of 2010 found Michael and Paul at our friend
Mike DeMaio's annual Nude Year's Eve party. That's right, we began
the year like the New Year's baby…naked.
In the morning we began the year in our traditional way, with a January
hike. This year's took us along the Hieroglyphic Trail in the
foothills of the Superstition Mountains.
Michael
and Paul, Zach, and his friend Josh were the hikers, enjoying
perfect weather and a stunning sunset on our return.
On the 14th, our daughter Karen arrived from Virginia to visit; and
we made another hike to Hieroglyphic Canyon with her, to celebrate
her birthday.
With the 2009 holidays over, Zachary returned to Augusta Ranch
Elementary School to finish out fifth grade. His mother, Jenny, has
instilled such discipline, that Zach starts his homework each
afternoon upon his return from school without even thinking about
it. And as a fifth grader, his homework load is considerable.
However, as busy as Zachary is, we still had time for the occasional
day out; and closed out January by driving "up the hill" (the
Mogollon Rim) north of Payson with Zachary and his friend, Lane, to
spend a day playing in the snow.
February
Michael wearing his stethoscope, with Dr. Joni Olehausen, Dean of Medical Education.
February was the month that Michael returned to school to fulfill a life-long
dream: That of becoming a medical doctor. This is what he'd been
working towards in the last few years of study: All those classes at
Mesa Community College, his bachelor's degree from Arizona State
University, and finally his acceptance at the Southwest College of
Naturopathic Medicine to pursue his doctorate in naturopathic
medicine.
Now, medical school is not a pursuit one takes on lightly. The
amount of studying and devotion required by it is almost
all-consuming. Before Michael could even consider applying, he
needed a commitment from Paul to support his devoting himself to his
studies during the next four years, which Paul gladly gave. This
support would mostly take the form of Paul's doing additional
household chores through the year so that Michael would be
able to spend more time studying, a task that occupies more than 40
hours most weeks. In exchange, Paul and the rest of the household
would benefit from having the beck-and-call services of a medical
student in the house.
It seemed like a fair exchange.
Meanwhile, Zach continued his studies of mixed martial arts, being
awarded his second red belt after demonstrating appropriate skills.
Michael's medical school hosted a Research Night that both he and
Paul were invited to attend. We got to hear about many new and
upcoming medical research projects in which naturopathic doctors are
assisting, including exciting new advances in the treatment of
HIV/AIDS as well as other difficult diseases.
However, February ended on a note of sadness as Michael's Aunt
Vickie died February 27. She had been Michael's paternal Uncle
Frank's wife.
March
In March we had our handyman friend Greg over to replace the old
kitchen light fixtures with newer, cleaner ones. And Paul bought and
assembled a beautiful oak DVD case for the family room/home theatre.
In addition, we added a China cabinet and a place for the "good"
dishes into the dining room. And we bought a new refrigerator and
stove for the kitchen, as well as new pool and living room
furniture.
With Michael tied up with studying
even most weekends, Paul whiled away the time by camping and touring
Arizona, and exploring new photographic techniques. A visit to Mount
Lemmon, near Tucson, yielded some photos in "High Dynamic Range".
Another weekend in March, Jenny, Zach, Paul and Zach's friend Lane
camped at the El Dorado Hot Spring in Tonopah.
April
In April, during a break in Michael's medical school schedule, he
and Paul went to Hawai'i, specifically, the island of Kaua'i. It was
Michael's first trip to Hawai'i and our first trip to the "garden
isle" for us both.
While our trip was very thorough, including Waimea Canyon and the west,
south and east coasts of the island, we did suffer a minor mishap
when Paul swung on a rope over a waterfall and tore his bicep
tendon. But it didn't prevent us from enjoying an authentic luau or
visiting and photographing any number of exquisite spots.
Meanwhile at home, Jenny left her previous position for a new job as
Program Director at The
River Source, a holistic alcohol and drug treatment center
located in Casa Grande. That makes a heck of a commute, but she
plays her tunes and enjoys the ride through the exquisite Central
Arizona desert.
May
Michael's Summer I session at SCNM began May 3, pretty much the
moment we returned from Hawai'i.
This past winter was so wet that the Upper Salt River was still
running at rafting levels well into May; so Paul went on a two-day
expedition down the river. This was just a week after our return
from Hawai'i, and Paul's bicep tendon had not yet healed.
Nevertheless, the first day of paddling wasn't a problem. It was on
the second day, dropping 12 feet into Corkscrew Rapid, that Paul was
nearly ejected from the raft and had to be pulled back in—by his
bad arm, which re-tore the healing muscle.
It looked pretty horrible for several weeks after that, with the result
that Paul felt very butch.
On the 19th, Michael and Paul, with our friends Barbara and
Peter, attended an amazing concert starring the legendary James
Taylor and Carole King. It was encouraging seeing these two, older
than any of us, able to get onto and offstage without walkers.
And the weekend after that, Paul flew up to Washington State to assist
his dear friend, Ann, in scattering the ashes of her late husband.
Despite the somber reason for the visit, Paul had a great time
reconnecting with Ann and her now-grown and beautiful daughter
Devan, and making new friends as well as exploring that beautiful
countryside.
Meanwhile, Zachary had become quite the marksman, with his new
air gun (a gift for his 11th birthday) as well as with the
bow-and-arrow he'd received earlier. Though he'd never held a rifle
before, he hit the target with his first shot.
June
In the first week of June, Zach and I played host to our friend
Peter and three young friends of his visiting from Germany as we
went to visit Biosphere II, between Phoenix and Tucson.
One of Michael's instructors, Dr. Walter Crinnion, autographed a book he
had written entitled Clean, Green and Lean, which explains
how environmental toxins are what actually make us fat. Paul read
the book from cover-to-cover, and in June began seeing Dr.
Crinnion's student doctors at the SCNM clinic to be naturopathically
detoxed, a process that continues to this day, as the level of
toxins tests found in Paul's body was terrifyingly high.
All through the year, Paul had been attempting to keep out of
Michael's hair over the weekends in which Michael was devoted to
studying. So Paul had made several camping trips to one of his
favorite spots, Verde Hot Spring. On the way there, he'd passed an
inviting looking swimming spot on Fossil Creek. So, in June, he took
Jenny and Zach and Zach's grandmother Mary up to Fossil Creek for
some good old-fashioned swimming hole fun.
July
Paul had promised Zach a serious rafting trip for his birthday in
May. This gift was manifested at the beginning of July. Paul and
Zach flew to Denver, drove to Glenwood Springs, then rafted the
Browns Canyon section of the Arkansas River before returning (by way
of a hike at the Garden Of The Gods in Colorado Springs). It was a
major trip and both participants enjoyed it thoroughly.
On the 18th, we hosted Michael's classmate, Luca, and Luca's wife
Theresa, on our first Lower Salt River float of the year. Michael
wasn't able to come along, but Jenny and Zach did; and we were
rewarded with a visit with the river's resident wild horses, which
created a truly special experience for our guests. Luca, who's lived
most of his life in Italy, was particularly impressed; while Paul
and Jenny were merely reminded why we love living in Central Arizona
so much.
Michael's Summer I session ended on the 12th of July, and all this
time Paul and Michael had been carpooling in the Ford Expedition,
which is a terrific vehicle for camping and hiking but not very fuel
efficient for commuting…especially to two different locations. So
at the end of July Michael bought himself a 1994 Buick Park Avenue
in which to deliver himself to school in style.
August
On the weekend of August 15, Michael and Paul finally got a
weekend off and spent it watching the Perseid meteor shower at Verde
Hot Spring, where we met our friends Eddie and Carl. The stars were
spectacular and of course the company pleasant. And a week later,
Paul got really daring and took Zach and his friends Josh and Lakota
on a camping trip to Fossil Creek, where we explored various
swimming spots and had a great time.
September
Each year Michael and Paul like to give Michael's sister, Surya, a trip
as a birthday present. Although her birthday is in July, we usually
wind up going on our trip sometime after that as Surya is very busy
with her work with the Arizona Bridge to Independent Living, an
advocacy group for people with disabilities. However, this year we
were able to take her to see Monument Valley, a spot she'd never
before visited.
It's a long drive from Phoenix, and although we got as early a
start as we could manage, we didn't arrive until sunset. That meant
we got to drive around the natural monuments after dark, which in
turn allowed Paul to take nighttime photos with his Canon G10
Powershot digital camera.
Also in September, Jenny began dating her friend Jimmy. We began to see
less of her and Zach on weekends as they spent time with Jimmy at
firing ranges, go-cart tracks and similar places designed to
distract Zach from his favorite video games.
October
In October, we switched from Cox Cable TV to Dish Network. That wasn't
the most exciting thing to happen all month, but it came close. Our
HOA had a picnic which Michael and Paul attended along with Zach.
Still in the Halloween mood, Michael helped decorate a Halloween
party held at SCNM and then joined Paul at our friend Gregg
Edelman's party at his art gallery, Exposed, in downtown Phoenix
where we were entertained by a fabulous drag revue and awesome food.
October also signaled the start of Michael's Fall term at SCNM.
And, of course, we went all out at our house with the
decorations, including a cemetery in the front yard, floating
witches, a fog machine, a talking candy box, various dismembered
body parts scattered here and there, and Michael in full regalia
as…um…well, something scary, anyway.
November
The biggest addition in November was a chance meeting that led to
a new friend and now member of our household. Jason lived with his
partner of 12 years, but through no fault of either one, their
relationship was in decline. After a few visits to our household it
became clear that Jason liked being with us more than he did his
house in Anthem; and we began considering whether we really wanted
to keep our guest room empty forever. Jason went camping with the
family (and Zach's friend, Tyler) at the hot spring at Tonopah and
everyone seemed to like him; so the wheels turned and it was decided
Jason would move in with us before Christmas.
December
Which brings us to the current month. With Jason to assist, we've gotten
the lights up, and the tree erected. Michael has taken his medical
school finals and is awaiting the results; Jenny and Zach are
packing to move into a place of their own next year; we are
interviewing potential roommates to fill their rooms.
Milton the cat had an incident where he thought it might be
interesting to nap in the motor cavity of Michael's car, and is now
recovering with a broken paw in a cast.
In short, we are experiencing more than the usual amount of
stress and change at this end of 2010 but look joyfully ahead to
2011, where we hope the changes will evolve into even more joy and
fulfillment for all of us than we could ever imagine.
And we wish the same for you!